Looking For a Proposal?

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Do you feel like you’ve been waiting around for a marriage proposal for a long time? Don’t worry! The tips here can help you to get one. Take a look and see what you can try to finally get the ring and the day of your dreams. Good luck!

Have An Honest Conversation

It’s a good idea to have an honest, non judgemental conversation if you’ve been waiting a long time for a marriage proposal. Ideally, you and your partner will both want marriage, and you will have both discussed this when getting together so you know that your futures can align. However, if you feel like you’ve been waiting a long time and it’s bugging you, you could find a good time to bring up the subject. Don’t be pushy, or say anything that will get your partner’s back up.

If you’ve already had this conversation in the past, you could try discussing somebody else’s wedding to see how they react. You could even have a casual look  at diamond engagement rings. Just don’t buy or book anything. They need to feel like this is their idea. 

Be The Happiest, Best Version Of Yourself

Nobody is going to want to marry you if you’re unhappy and not taking care of yourself. You should never be anything other than what you are, but you should aim to be the happiest, best version of yourself possible. Don’t get too comfortable. Do some classes, and learn a new skill. Do things that make you happy without your partner. This is very attractive, as you’re not simply expecting somebody else to make you happy all the time. It takes pressure off your partner and makes them feel more inclined to pop the question.

Enjoy Your Life Together And Apart

You need to make sure you enjoy life both with and without your partner. This goes back to the happiness thing we talked about earlier. If you and your partner can’t find happiness alone, you’ll likely struggle when you’re together. Relying on one another for happiness puts a lot of pressure on the relationship. Make sure you are genuinely enjoying your life. There’s nothing more attractive!

Make Sure You Listen To Your Other Half

Make sure you make your other half feel safe. Make sure you really listen to them and give them the support they need. Understand them. Treat them the way you wish to be treated. Your other half should see you as a safe haven. If they do view you this way, they’ll never want to be apart from you.

Don’t Be Too Pushy

You shouldn’t drop lots of hints to your partner, and make them feel pushed into making a decision. They should feel like this is their decision. Nothing good can come out of making somebody feel pressured into marrying you. Be mindful of the hints you’re dropping.

Marriage is supposed to be forever, so just enjoy this time in your relationship. If you do end up getting married, you have the rest of your life to enjoy it. Make the most of the time you have now! The more you enjoy the present, and the less you worry about the future, the more you should find good things happen.

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